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写给你的一封短讯

你,还好吗? 有一段时间没问候了。 现在,相信你在大学,已找到属于你的一片天,你喜爱的活动。或许,你也找到了其余伴侣。 七年了,这么久的时间,却有着一个傻瓜,至今还傻乎乎地忙着,试图把重复摔碎的碎片黏回。 有些话,很难以文字写下。但是,过去式,已无法挽回。只能继续,往前走。 -ryan zibin- 22 January 2018

Advancing

Hi Guys, Back after a long while, this time months into my life in green. I enlisted into the army a few months back, and I pretty much havnt had time to talk much about it, because you know, there isn’t even time to start of with. The regimental lifestyle is not much of an issue for me, it’s how the people you meet are able to gel together to get stuff down. So far, my journey in has seen the same results across the places I am attached to, resulting in unnecessary conflicts and auch. However, I believe that time runs out for everyone, you can dislike the person today, but when the person turns out to be of a good leader in the future, the past will be back to haunt. Can’t divulge much either for the fear of slapped charges, but all’s well, I believe time will fly by quickly. -ryan zibin- 7 November 2017

Fly fly fly

How time flies, this blog has been around for 5 years! Up till now, this small frame of free writing at least is still a place for me to freely express my thoughts and feelings. Thank you for the support for those who do pop by once in a while to see me pen down my nonsensical thoughts, as well for the times I really needed an avenue to vent some emotions. Well for these time, time really flies as titled. I'm arriving at the last week of my internship!! It was an eventful time with my attached organisation I must say, I get to come into all aspects of different functions related to my course. It was also there where I get to see examples of the meaning "People come, people go". I am a sentimental person for those who know me, people who I have met and had a chance to know them better, chances are I will be emotionally attached to them as friends. Therefore it's really sad when you have to see people leave. However, I have gotten myself to suppress these feelings ...

Communication

Allow me to write this post when I'm on the way to work for internship! Over the weekend, two separate incidents gave me a new insight into this simple word that most leaders will say, is key to the success of almost any relationships, regardless whether it is that of family members or workmates. Incident 1: I was on bus 985 to Choa Chu Kang when it was reaching the interchange. A family of four boarded at the last stop prior to the interchange, which was also quite a few junctions away. You know how those new wheelchair buses have those backrests? The son went to lean on it once he boarded the bus. His sister and parents boarded after him, but the sister is also interested in leaning on the backrest. She leaned on it, and requested her brother to move aside for her to lean fully on the backrest. Reason being? "I've reserved it!" Of course, the brother didn't budge, and instead nudged her with his right elbow in a bid to shove her away. The mother saw the in...

Number

"Age is but a number" What's with age this time round! Long story cut short, I met another part timer at an event I was at today. She is in Uni year 1 and I'm in poly year 3 as some of you will know. I was talking to her after her friend finshed work and the rest of her colleagues are occupied with the event. We belong to different companies but we were assigned with another two of our part timers also. I found out that she was Uni year 1 as mentioned above, that's when she remarked that I'm "so young" because I was in poly year 3. Well, I told her that there is only at most 2 years of difference between the both of us, which she agreed. [Sadly didnt managed to get either instagram or mobile number :( ] Back to topic, how does it relate? I always thought that age is just a number, nothing more to it. However, to some, it might matter a lot to them in the form of searching for their significant other. I recall a time where I was staying back in s...

Ranting

Hello all!  I am finally back after my previous post, finally have the time to type my thoughts down, probably because I am down with flu haha, otherwise I do not think I will have the mood to write. If some of you here recall, I tend to write my posts in the wee hours of the morning, as that is the time I will have the most "feel" to write. Anyway, I have so many things to pen down, but let me start off with school life first, before carrying on with other things. Currently, 2 weeks of school life have almost passed, with 4 weeks more before internship! For those who are wondering, I only have 6 weeks of school this semester before I will embark on a 3 months internship. However, I still have to clear 2 modules beforehand, and these projects are already taking a toll despite my group's progress. I don't know if it's me, but I feel very tired of heading to school. I don't know if its due to the long semestral break before or the compact timetable we have no...

Consolation

Hi all, sorry to keep you all waiting! I actually had much to comment on over the past few weeks with events I saw, but I was pretty much tired to blog because I was really, really tired from so many activities like camp, training for 2.4 and so on. Do give me time to slowly update it again as I also need time to sort my thoughts out as well! (Yes, alot of mindsets changed, stay tuned!) Ryan zibin 28 October 2016