Friends.. Sure?

Time check, 0117hrs
Oi, why aren't you asleep!!
Well.. Because I am hungry and I just gobbled food down, which gave me time for thoughts and feelings to flow again.
This time around, different friends popped out from my memory, as I was enjoying my late night supper (I do not usually take supper)
As we grow older, we tend to go for courses and etcetera and so on. When we go for these events, it is bound for us to remember the people who helped to make these events possible and possibbly livelier. However, will you consider them your friends just based upon that one meeting that both of you have faced? Even so, how will the both of you meet up after that? Pure coincidence? 
It might not make sense up there ^ , but thats what I usually think about. Some friends come, some friends go. Some even mastered the art of "unfriending" so well that you are always a new face to them.
Some friends.. Well, once they grab hold of key benificiary details that benefit them, they will "upgrade" themselves so thay they will be able to hop on the bandwagon. They will appear frequently in your scope until they somehow managed to squeeze you dry of their benefits. Thenafter, you are in your own~ Some examples include: Job finding, searching for a relationship partner (has happened before) and many more. These friends I would say, is one of those that you might want to apply the art of "unfriending" to.
Of course, there are also those loyal ones, which joke when you are down tomcheer you up, and be there for you when you when you need a listening ear.bThis quality is probably only the tip of the iceberk as it does not only take one quality to be friends for life. 
Im actually half stoned writing this as Im on the verge of falling asleep hahaha, will continue with an example next time
round!

-ryan zibin-
1 October 2015

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