Untangling the invincible knot

I was intrigued to write this post after coming across this episode of 《大学生了没》. Basically for those who had no idea, it is a Taiwanese variety show and this particular episode was on healing songs for those that had just broken up with their other halves in recent months. 
Here is the link before I carry on with my thoughts and opinion: Http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eRFWFOVqBNg
Well, after watching this episode, I really feel that I can relate to what some of them are going through, especially for the lady who was just fresh out of a relationship for only a week! She was overwhelmed by emotions throughout the episode, man that feel :(
As the episode progresses, when the group of students start to share their breakup experiences, it is really heart wrenching to see how some of them are still unable to get over their relationships. 
One of the experience shared was that she was forced to breakup because her ex boyfriend laid fingers on her, however she didn't want it to end at all. She was willing to carry on with the relationship but they weren't allowed.
As for the woman who only broke up a week ago, she was still hoping for her ex boyfriend to come back to her side even if he misunderstood her for being a burden in a sense that he couldnt be friends with one of his other ex girlfriend.
There are more stories shared in the video, do have a look at it if interested! Link up there a few paragraphs ago.
I mean, I've been through that stage as well, and it definitely wasn't easy to come out of it. Took me a few years to come out of the relationships as a whole because well, young and reckless me cause a huge tangled mess back in secondary school. Up to this day, I still listen to slow songs or songs with very meaningful lyrics, as I have already grown accustomed to the companionship of such songs to my life. So for those who know me, now you know why I listen to such emo songs alrd HAHAHAHAHA 
But back on a serious note, yeah I did learn to think through about things this time round. It is never fun to toy around with feelings as though the people you toy with are emotionless dolls at your disposal and manipulation. Learn to respect and accept people for who they are, not make them change for your liking. 
If it took 3 years for me to take the first step out of my comfort zone again, hopefully it reflects the amount of consideration and thought I have placed into this decision. :)

zibin
7 June 2016

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